Years ago this would be handled by using a good sharp scraper but sandpaper seems to be the only alternative folks consider now. The raised portion of the grain is harder than the pulpier and softer wood between. If you scrape but don't push down real hard you may be able to erase any grain lines. Depends on the wood.
I'm certain some folks have mentioned the following book but I'll do it again. If you want to discover some older methods, with the focus NOT on sanding everything that moves, try finding this. He has a second book (The Furniture Doctor) but this one is the best reference I can find for dealing with wood finish hassles of any kind. It was written around mid-20th century but most can be applied today. I have the original print edition and already have three family members claiming them after my demise. I didn't really understand lacquer until finding these.
From Gunk to Glow: The Gentle Art of Refinishing Antiques and Other Furniture Paperback – January 1, 1983
by George Grotz