Of course, if he's a jerk you're still helping him out, but you're also helping you out.
You would have to know this guy, he is a jerk, and not even a smart one. I have had dealings with him before. I was told he was a real oddball before I ever met him, but his money was green. I did offer to help him sell it, no commission ...he said no, he would just keep it. I had 10 guys who would have bought it in a heartbeat, they all saw it and tried to buy it and I said it was not mine to sell. (it laid on a pallet in my shop for 3+ weeks, right in my way, before he would come get it after I called him and said it was dry. And he lives 1 1/2 miles away. Are you getting the picture?)
I will even tell more of the story. This guy cost me logs too. The day he brought the log in his neighbor came with him. I spent some time showing them around. The neighbor was an old dude, like 90, seemed like a nice feller. He said he had 3-4 walnuts down he had pushed up behind the barn I could just have. They had been down a couple years (which does not scare me abit) just come out with a trailer and he would load me up with his tractor.
So fast forward a few days. I had not got out to pick up the free logs, I had been busy sawing and figured they were not going anywhere. I cut into the curly log and stopped on the first cut and called the guy. He wanted it all sawn 4/4, but since it was curly I thought maybe he would want to do something different. He said "What is curly?" I explained, he still did not get it. I told him it was worth 3+ times as much as plain walnut. He said 4/4 was fine, so I went out and sawed it up. I get in the house for lunch and there is a message from the old neighbor, he wanted to talk to me. I did not call him back right then.
I am back out milling in the afternoon and the old dude pulls up. He says "You know I have been thinking, I will just hang on to those logs, don't bother coming out"

. He had talked to the jerk and he was bragging about having a small fortune growing in his yard, so the neighbor thought for sure he did too...I bet there ain't another walnut like that for 100 miles, let alone across the road from the first one :no:.
90 years old and the logs have already laid for a couple years, what does "Hang on to them" mean? His neighbor talked him out of giving them to me...and I was nothing but nice to both of them.