Change color after danish oil?
I've read a few good posts on this topic, but none exactly like mine. Long story shkrt, I decided to convert an unfinished project of someone else's into a changing table for my new baby. My wife would like it to be espresso colored (very dark brown), but it was already finished with golden watco danish oil. I would have stained it espresso if it hadn't been oiled... It is red oak.
What is the easiest way to get thr color I am looking for? Really would like to have it match the espresso colored crib we bought... Obviously I could sand, though the sides are oak ply, which I am slightly afraid of sanding too much.
All help is greatly appreciated!